Make Her Happy, Now !!

Hello guys.
This tips is for men all around the world.
So, read it guys !

When making a relationship, it is important to make her happy. Well, to make our beloved ones happy, there is many ways, such as give her a nice gift, kiss her romantically, etc. And sex, is one of the best way to make her very very happy.

But sometimes, not all man can make her partner happy in their sex life. Many man cant hold long enough until their partner reach orgasm. Well, that's the problem. And it need to solved, if you want to keep your relationship with your partner, or even make it better.

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Tips for Women

Hello girlssssss !!!!!!!
what's up ??
hope you all fine.
this time i want to give some tips for women.
yeah, just look at the title.

the author is Mina Groat.
this is a great tips for woman.
just read and you know it.
for man who read this, consider it as a bonus experience from Mina.

ok, let's get started !!


The life is not over if he has left you, and as they say if a man chooses another women, it is difficult to say who is lucky. Do not fall into despair. He is not the first and he is not going to be the last. You just have to go through it. If you really sees that your relationship is over or that there is no sense to continue it, try to through him out of your mind. Do not call him; do not visit the places where he could be. There is no step back. Delete all his messages and e-mails, take away all his presents and pictures, you will come back to them when you recover. Do not sit along at home and cry, go to visit your friends, but not on the drink parties, as sometimes women are trying to drink alcohol a lot in order to forget the second half, but it only becomes worth. By the way, the women's alcoholism is almost impossible to treat. Try to change your appearance. Go to the spa salon and to the hairdresser. Change your color of hair, change your style of cloth, it will obviously help. Do not blame yourself that you are guilty for he has left you. It is nonsense. If he failed to value you, you do not need him at all.


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Help for Men

HEEYYYYYY......
what's up guys ??
hope you all fine.

this time, my blog is about help for men.
the author is Octavio Johnson.
REMEMBER :
this is specially for men who can't control his broken heart.
if there is a girl or woman read this, consider it as a bonus to understanding your partner.

well, let's get started !!

The breaking up has become a common thing in the modern society. However, the men really suffer from it twice more than the women do. For most of them with the leave of the girlfriends, the life is over. It is just silly to behave in such a way! Hey, dear gentlemen! Try to remember that you are men and that to cry is the privilege of women! If you want to make her back, do not show that you are suffering! You are the most powerful gender on the planet, so behave yourself in a proper way! Do not try to come back her with the help of such words that you can not live without her. It will not work! Make her to be the first who is sorry because of your breaking. Think about your positive features and advantages and increase your self-confidence! Consider yourself to be the best man in the world! Show her, whom she has lost. And believe me, after that she will run to you and will begging you to fix your relationship. Nevertheless, be patient. Even if you want to hug her immediately, pretend that you are still thinking whether you want her to come back or not. After that, she will perfectly behave herself! Good luck!

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The Waves of Pain that Depression Causes

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it's been awhile....
how are you all today ??

today's title is above, as you can see....
the author is Travis Knight.

Let's get started !!


I have witnessed hopelessness fall on a mans house like a ton of bricks. It almost squeezed the last ounce of joy from his very soul. It continued to squeeze him until his demons convinced him he did not deserve to breathe. He stayed in his bed day after day knowing that physical nourishment would only prolong his agony and prevent his inevitable death. He asked himself if his pain was caused by his own recklessness, or that of another, but at the time he felt so hopeless, that it did not really matter. His sense of logic eluded him while these demons all gathered to shame him to death.

He thought of many ways to relieve his pain, but there was a small piece of sanity that remained. He held on to this little piece of hope just long enough for his Sustainer to chase those clouds of doom away.

When he awakened from the intense pain, the spirit of Truth explained to him, who, why, and what was behind it all. It was then he was relieved he did not heed the advisement of those who had rallied to agonize him to death.

If you knew him from the past you would not recognize him today. I remember him well, as this recreated spirit is now sharing his nightmare with you.

Depression: The act of depressing or the state of being depressed. Low spirits, feeling moody or blue;

Psychiatry), a lowering of vital powers, melancholy, especially; psychopathic melancholy leading to mental disorder. (Funk & Wagnall's, New Comprehensive International Dictionary).

One fourth of all women have a major bout with depression at sometime in their lives, but sometimes the symptoms are so masked in illness, that they don't realize that depression is causing the problem.

Family physician's hear complaints of headaches, backaches, or the blahs, and often patients get undiagnosed because they remain unaware that there problem could be related to a mood disorder. (Woman's Encyclopedia of Health & Emotional Healing, Page 65).

It appears that addiction to alcohol and/or other drugs often masks an underlying depression. There is much research to conclude there is a link between addiction and depression. If left untreated, depression can cause a downward spiral leading to severe health problems, especially suicide.

Have you, too, begun to feel that your life it just not worth the hassle?

Do you feel like there is a cloud of pending doom hanging over your head, causing you to make choices that are not in your best interest, or just feel it does not matter any longer?

We have discovered possible causes and cures that I feel I must share with you.

Having been given the opportunity to work with the homeless population, with alcohol and other drug abusers, I’ve had opportunity to see first hand the signs and symptoms related to depression. Over these last years I have witnessed a major increase in those effected by this and other related illness.

I have further witnessed people who have taken synthetic drugs to counteract this illness, and after a few weeks they do seem more in control of their emotions, however soon after, I have begun to notice that the spirit that once lived in their eyes seems to disappear.

In a world filled with uncertainty, sickness, death, relationships crumbling, jobs being down sized, fathers and mothers leaving one another to seek after their identities, it is no wonder the world is in such disarray.

Without going so much into the spiritual causes of this disarray that is sweeping the land, one must take into consideration the hostility of environment. Never before has man created so many non-organic impurities.

Radio towers are admitting microwaves, micro wave ovens in our homes, cell phones using micro wave technologies, chemicals are even being used to control pests on our farm lands, and some even claim there are factions of an underworld government spraying chem trails above our heads in order to destroy our immune systems.

Why, it is no wonder most of us are a mess!!!

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How To Make Many Friends Easily

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what's up people ?
once again, welcome to my blog....

this time, the topic about how to make many friends easily...

the author is Ivan Campuzano...
mmm....
having many friends is one of my priority...

well, let's get started !!


How to make many friends easily..

With every goal you have in life, people will always be a critical part of it. How fast you reach your goals depends on how well you deal with people and the level of influence you have on them. In order to really influence people you must become a person who is likable. How do you become likable? You must have a sincere interest in other people. Every person on this earth wants to feel important, so you need to treat everyone with the up most importance, because they deserve it. Remember no one is better than you and you are not better than anyone, we are all human beings who deserve the same amount of respect.

Becoming Likable:

Setting the Stage

Your goal in meeting people should be to consciously be the first to initiate and set the stage for conversation. Most people are hesitant to be the first, don’t be like most people step out of your comfort zone. I know that if you are a shy person that this can be one of the hardest things for you to do, but the more you do it, the more you condition your self for it to become second nature. As a small kid I used to be really shy but I noticed that the kids that where outgoing tended to be the happier kids so I began to step out of my comfort zone and now I feel I can walk up to almost anyone. This is going to take time; things don’t happen over night but don’t let this discourage you. Many people feel that for you to become proficient in something takes around five years. Don’t waste anytime, start today and each day after that will get easier. Each different experience will later serve as a reference to remind you, that you can approach almost anyone. By being the first to initiate conversation you also automatically have a certain degree of control, you are able to draw people into your own rhythms. Have you ever noticed how persuasive people are able to seduce you to their ways, dictating your body language and basically synchronizing it to theirs? This is because people naturally imitate other people as a way of communicating with the other person. So if you are the first you get to decide what angle to approach. So if the person you are approaching appears sad, approach them with a big confident smile. Odds are they will slowly begin to smile; you will automatically change their mood. Now you will have a better chance of having a better conversation.

In setting the stage you will need to train your self to pick up any subtle signals that the person you are approaching is giving off. With time you will be able to sum up a person in a blink of an eye and from what your subconscious catches use it help you set the stage. This will require you to have an open mind and immerse your self in as many different worlds/cultures as possible. That’s why I never limit my self to one particular set of friends. I have friends from all sorts of backgrounds. I have friends who are skaters, basketball players, artists, musicians, writers, etc. By having so many friends with diverse interests I quickly learn about their worlds. By knowing what kind of stage to set up you will know how to get the other person to think very highly of you. For example by being observant you will catch the subtleties in the way a person appears to be (The way he is dressed, body language, tone of voice, language, etc.) which will help you to imagine placing your self in there shoes. By really imagining what being that person is like it will give you a good idea of how he/she is feeling. This in turn helps you get a better idea of what appproach to use when trying to communicate effectively with them. When I am able to pick up persons subtleties I will know what topics, questions, and general things that appeal to them which gives me information to work with in the process of winning that person as a friend. Like if know this person is really passionate about cars, I will ask a question with the minimum knowledge I have about something that he knows or thinks he knows a lot about.

Now you set the stage for Mike who will love to tell me exactly why the Mitsubishi EVO is better. When someone is knowledgeable about something it’s in their nature to tell you because it is one more opportunity for them to show how great or smart they are. You have to cater to their ego and never test or contradict their ideas, because their ego will not accept someone who is supposed to know less tell them they are possibly wrong. If I would have told him that I heard that the Subaru WRX is better, we would have just gotten in an argument that he would not have backed out of. But I didn’t and now they will love me for it, because I was taking interest into what he enjoys.

Body Language

Whenever you approach someone for the very first time your body language will do most of the talking and the other person will immediately have a first impression of you. So you must always be aware that whatever you say your body is also in agreement. If you say one thing and your body says the opposite you will come out as someone fake. We have all seen the girl that walks up to another girl and says “I’m so happy to see you…how you been?....you look so good…” but their body language is saying “what are you doing here….I’m not really listening to what your saying” this is easily seen and can be one of the rudest things you can do in trying to make new friends. Always approach someone with open gestures and a smile. If you approach someone with crossed arms, this will automatically make the other person defensive and question your motives. Approach them with open arms and a gentle smile, smiling is infectious if the other person has a stern look on their face the moment youapproach them with a smile you will gradually notice that they will smile too. This usually sets it up for a good conversation because both people are in good moods. Try this - if you’re in a neutral mood right now, put a big smile on your face for no reason if you pay attention you can feel your body changing and your mood immediately start to change. People who are in good moods will place a lot more importance to what you have to say.

Questions and Listening

Your next goal is to sincerely try to find out as much as you can about the person. Ask quality questions; find out what is important to the person, goals, beliefs, interests, etc. The key is to be sincere so the person feels comfortable and is more likely to open up. Try to have a calm demeanor refrain from being overly eager as this might scare the person. You must be able to match the mood of the person. If the person is excited to tell you a story you must become excited as well. If the person is telling you a sad story you must show sincere empathy. Be open minded and really listen to the person.

Listening: Try to listen at least twice as much as you talk. Listening requires more than just pretending to listen or simply hearing a person talk. Listening and hearing are two completely different things and the person can tell if you’re really listening to them, or simply hearing them speak. Being a good listener is a skill, you must become an active listener. Remember this is all about the other person, who cares if you don’t get to talk about your self. In the end the other person will love you for it. They will tell their friends

“Man I really enjoyed talking to that person”….why is that? Was he a very interesting person? “You know what…I really don’t know why…I really don’t know much about him”

This shouldn’t bother you because in the end you greatly benefited from the situation as well. If you’re an effective listener you will gain a better understanding of that person’s thoughts, perspectives, feelings and actions. You have to remember that most people would rather talk than listen, but most of the time this person is not very influential. Take this as an opportunity to become more persuasive and influential.

Sometimes the problem with most people is that listening to them doesn’t have much value. They feel that in order to get people to like them they must do a great deal of the talking. Think about that for a minute, how do you like it when another person is talking so much that when you try and say something they still keep talking. You eventually quit listening to that person because you got to annoyed. Now sometimes you don’t need to do most of the listening, you constantly need to evaluate the situation. Sometimes people really want to hear what you have to say. In this situation still try and get the other person involved and flip around the question that they just asked you.

People who talk too much

1. People always talk about them behind their backs

2. In group settings they feel they always need to say something just to feel like they are contributing.

3. Usually have very big egos

4. They ask questions that they already have the answers too

5. Because they are so focused on having something to say aren’t even listening to what someone is saying.

People Who Listen Effectively

1.Get the whole picture, than they can act accordingly.

2.Everyone loves a good listener so you will make tons of friends.

3.No one talks bad about you, who ever said “man that kid just loves to listen too much”

Good listening is going to really take effort. The reason is that people can think a lot faster than people can speak. What ends up happening is that you begin to think of other things as that person is speaking. Than you become consumed with those thoughts. Next thing you know the other person asks you “So than do you think I did the right thing”. You weren’t listening so you have no idea what to say. This is one of biggest turn offs in trying to become friends with that person.

Things to avoid when Listening

Don’t Interrupt

Because you have the upper hand by thinking faster than someone who is speaking, you will become tempted to interrupt. Don’t because the other person will get the feeling that you don’t care what they are saying and want to bring back the topic of conversation to you. The other person might also have great momentum going in telling you a story, but when you interrupt them their story doesn’t carry as much feeling when they go back to speaking. You also show that you are one of those people who enjoy speaking more than being a good listener. When you interrupt you are also making assumptions of what you think the other person is about to say. This might cause you to miss out completely different information. Because you interrupted them the other person might not even want to continue telling you about it.

Don’t Finish Other Peoples Sentences

Don't Offer Advice too Soon

Compliments + Appreciation

The way to make people feel important is through sincere compliments and appreciation. Most people go out their way to do something, to get other people to notice them, yet most people don’t. Get in the habit of noticing the little things about people. In the end the little things are what matter and what end up making a person unique so pay attention. Next time you see them, be the first to give them a sincere compliment on something even as simple as their hair cut. By making other people feel good about them selves you should also feel good for doing it, it’s a win win situation.

Many times people walk around with the mentality that other people owe them something, nobody owes you anything. Whenever anybody does anything for you show your appreciation and let them know you don’t take anything for granted. Be spontaneous get the person a small gift when they don’t expect it.

Encouragement

Once you find out what is truly important to someone you must provide encouragement. Everyone has dreams and aspirations. Be the one who encourages them to pursue their goals. Any insight or information that’s empowering will provide a boost to their confidence. Most people are so afraid of failure that they will not pursue their goals. They will give you all the reasons why their goals are out of reach. Your goal should be to switch their focus on the negative reasons to the ways how they can make it happen. You have to remember that whatever we focus on becomes our reality, so when you focus only on the negative aspects that’s all you will see. When they give you a reason why they can’t do it, ask them if that’s really a reason or a mere excuse. If they are excuses show them how destructive it is to be in this mental state. Make them realize that all their hopes and dreams are in danger all because of petty excuses. One of the best feelings you will get in dealing with people, is when you get another person excited about his goals or ideas. Now that the person is excited you need to point them in the right direction. Help them research the world they want to be in; find out as much relevant information. Help them create a plan and deadlines that will help them reach their goals. Start with small attainable goals, this will help them gain momentum and than move onto more challenging goals. By being active in the whole process you will build a deeper and more influential relationship with that person. He will not see you as a mere friend but as an ally in their journey to success.

Plan and Organize Social Events

One of the best ways to develop a meaningful experience with someone is through a social event. Whenever you participate in an event or trip your relationship with those people will become even greater. When I studied abroad in Prague I have never developed such strong relationships in such a short amount of time. I met people from all over the world and on the weekends we would take trips to other countries. On these trips I made incredible bonds, because everyone was on an adventure of experiencing new things together. Experiences are always magnified with more people involved. Just think about when you are watching a funny movie all by yourself you begin to laugh but than realize no one is there to enjoy the moment with you and your experience is quickly diminished .

I hope all these pointers will help everyone become more influential, take care and much success to everyone!


mmm....
so i must bcome a likeable person...

that's s good article for me....



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Color Psychology and Your T-Shirt ...

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huff.....

what's up guys ??

hope you all fine....

this time, i want to share something unique...
it's about psychology...

and the title....








you can read it above !!!
hehehe....

The author is Rachel Lowenstein.
well, let's get started !!



The psychology of color is one that is concerned with the effects of hues on emotions, moods, and performance. Color is pervasive in the world, effective on the impressionable, and helps drive the emotion of man. Color is so profound, that it instantly drives our daily decisions within milliseconds. Why does a pale green calm the viewer while a shocking emerald jolts him? Why is cherry red associated with shameless sex appeal while burgundy is affiliated with timeless sophistication? These questions and many others like them all help individuals understand why hues drive their daily decisions. Therefore, it seems pertinent to consider color when choosing the design, style, and font related to t-shirts. Though the meaning of colors can vary according to culture, the general connotation of colors can be decoded into a small handful of meanings.

Red

A scarlet hue can be intense, it can be bold, and it can be passionate. Red quickens the heartbeat and it attracts the eye. Red, as a whole, can often be too straightforward as the primary color of a t-shirt. However, if your t-shirt objective is to catch another's eye, red is an ideal color. Scarlet is related with love and romance and is often used in related designs. A yellow-based red can be seen as hot and fiery, but also cheap. A blue-based red is the most passionate of the red family and can be worn by most skin types. Burgundy is seen as sophisticated but can also be dated. It is advisable to use red as an accent color in most cases. Hanes' most used red is Deep Red RE because of its eye-catching nature. Common types of custom t-shirts that use red are sports teams and collegiate events.

Orange

Energetic, exciting, and edgy, orange is one of the trickiest colors to work with. Though seen as attention-grabbing, orange is also perceived as the most unattractive color to the eye. It can be seen as aggressive, though it is less intense than red. A golden-hued orange that is commonly used by t-shirt vendors is Hanes Athletic Orange AX. Orange should be used sparingly on a t-shirt design and rarely should it be used as the t-shirt color because of its negative connotations.

Yellow

Yellow, in most cases, can be seen as cheerful and uplifting. Unless it is a heavily saturated yellow, golden hues are related to optimism, nature, and summer. A bright, saturated yellow can be seen as hazardous and even a sign of warning. Pastel yellows are inoffensive but childish. Family reunion and Greek t-shirts often employ yellow because of its eye-catching, but exciting, nature. Hanes has a variety of yellows, from bronze to bumblebee. The Hanes color Gold GO is a collegiate gold commonly utilized by universities. Golden Nugget GN is slightly more bronze and Yellow YE is a true, vibrant yellow.

Green

One of the most universal colors, different shades of green denotes a variety of meanings. However, most shades of green are the most pleasant to the human eye. Pale green is calming and refreshing while emerald green signifies richness and wealth. Lime green displays youth and playfulness while yellow-green is most popular in Asian cultures. A deep green is one of the most neutral colors to use for text as it is eye-catching but not offensive.

Blue

The color blue is collective and ubiquitous. It is, on a whole, the least complicated color to work with. When designing custom t-shirts, navy blue is one of the most requested shirt colors because of its neutrality. Peaceful, trusting, cool, dependability, and care are all words that are related to the color blue. Therefore, most designers use it to imply that a company is dependable and trusting. When in doubt while designing a t-shirt, it is advisable to choose a shade of blue. Aqua is young and hip, pastel is soothing and serene, navy is trusting and loyal, electric is trendy and fun. Companies such as banks and large corporations often choose blue because of its universal appeal.

Purple

Purple is often used as a spiritual, sensual, and sophisticated color. It is trendy in most cases and, if not used carefully, ultra feminine. Conversely, a deep purple can be used to replace gray, black, or brown as a neutral shade that maintains a slight punch of color. Religious t-shirts utilize purple for its spirituality while athletic teams use it for its bright neutrality.

Pink

When designing custom t-shirts, it is significant to keep in mind the femininity of rose colors. Pink is generally associated with romance, love, and marriage. It is most commonly used on t-shirts that are related to feminine ideals and matters. Hanes' Pale Pink PI is a baby pink, Pink PS is a vibrant pink, and Wow Pink 6A is a hot pink.

Brown

Masculine, natural, and warm, brown is a neutral color. It is associated with naturalness because of its abundance in nature. Caramel hues are warm, sand is mild, and deep browns are rich. When designing custom t-shirts, many customers use brown when designing family-style events because of its rich, home-style feel.

Black, Gray, and White

These three colors represent highs, lows, and everything in between. White, in Western culture, is seen as pure, innocent, and virginal. Black, in most cultures, is modern, severe, elegant, sorrowful, and mysterious all at once. Because of its multitude of meanings, black, paired with the correct design, can denote many things. A t-shirt with a skull and cross bones that is black is seen as edgy and severe. Yet, a shirt with modern lines and spacious text can be seen as contemporary. In addition, to soften black, gray is often used to maintain the elegance and formality of black.

This article is available for distribution with all original content and rights to the author Rachel Lowenstein.

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cool isn't it ??
my fave color is black...
so....
yeah, with right design, it can denote many things....



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Creating Your Vision ...

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this time....

the topic is about psychology once again....

the title....

Creating Your Vision

The author is Ivan Campuzano.
it's a nice article by him.


Here it comes...




"Reality is merely an illusion, albeit a very persistent one" Albert Einstein

I feel that one of the most important ingredients in your formula for success is having a clearly defined and vivid vision of where you want to be. At first the “how” is not that important, you need to create a vision that gets you so excited that you develop the mentality that you will stop at nothing to get what you want. Many people first focus on the how than very quickly find themselves overwhelmed with too many details and just as quickly talk them selves out of pursuing their goals. You have to take a leap of faith and trust that the how will be shown to you as you go along. Do you remember the days as a kid with dreams of epic proportions? What happened those dreams? You got older and domesticated by a society that says that having those dreams is foolish. That’s nonsense, why wouldn’t you want to accomplish the things that even as a kid you knew would make you happy. I encourage you to dream like you once used to.

“Shoot for the moon…even if you

Miss you’ll still be amongst them stars”- Beanie Sigel(rap artist)

One way I keep myself motivated and keep my vision alive is through my picture book. In my book I have everything that I want and every morning I look at it to remind me what I want in life. Go right now and get some magazines and cut out every picture of the things you want and places you want to visit, don’t be thinking if you can actually get those things now, dare to dream. Remember your mind thinks in pictures, look at your picture book until in becomes as vivid as possible in the theater of your mind. Your mind cant tell the difference between something you remember or something you experience in real time.

Visualization Exercises(meditation):

(Please read this whole section, I will explain why almost all self help fails to produce the results people want)

You can think of meditation as conscious sleeping. Just as you sleep to gain energy for your daily functioning, meditation is conscious sleeping that gives you all the energy(creative abilities) you need for what you intend to accomplish.

I also use lucid dreaming as another way to increase creativity, I will soon write a hub on lucid dreaming.(Lucid dreaming is when you actually become aware in your dream that you are dreaming, once properly trained you can control your dreams)

Use the power of meditation to help you achieve your goals. Strive to everyday meditate one minute for each year of your current age. I am 24, so everyday I try and meditate at least 24 minutes. If you are new to meditation check out this website on transcendental meditation .There are many techniques find something that feels good to you.

Quantum Mind Power

Daily Routine:

1. Pick a nice comfortable place where to meditate. Have an intention on what you plan to meditate on before hand. Ex. A destination you want to visit.

2. Find a comfortable position to sit. Sitting on a chair or on the floor, does not really matter as long as it is comfortable for you.

3. Cross your legs, clasp your hands together.(this helps make your own energy circuit and gives stability)

4.Close your eyes, than stop inner and outer chatter.

5. Relax, begin thinking that your whole body is becoming extremely relaxed.

6. Eyes should be closed.

7. You will notice that your mind is full of many thoughts. Your mind will than begin to ask questions to those thoughts and try and come up with answers whether they are known or unknown. This is why your mind(ego) can be your enemy if it mostly thinks in negative terms.

8. You will need to transcend your mind and thoughts in order to meditate. Your mind and thoughts are what separate you from your higher self, you can also think of your higher self as your subconscious mind don't worry about the labels.

9. You transcend your mind by simply observing your breath. Don't inhale/exhale consciously just observe your natural breathing. Don't go behind your thoughts, if you catch your self drifting just always come back to your breathing. Slowly the amount of thoughts reduces and your breathing becomes thinner and shorter. If you are able to keep all your focus on your breath, you will get to the point of no thought and no breath. This state of no thought is your connection to your divine being and energy body. The more you meditate the more benefits and energy that you will receive. Your own self awareness and consciousness will also expand.

10. You will feel a very pleasurable feeling meditating. If you feel any discomfort in your body these can be possible areas of disease or illness. If you meditate everyday you will heal your body naturally.

11. Now that you are in a state of no thought and total relaxation. Begin to think only on your intention. Remember whatever you think now is in a state that will be impregnated directly into your subconscious. It is incredibly important that you don't color any of your thoughts with any lack,limitation,dis belief or doubt. This is why almost all self help material does not produce the results people expect. Wishing for more money(or anything else) never works, the thought of wanting more money also has the thought of doubt attached to it. Ask your self how many thoughts that you think about have been modified in a way that is not beneficial to you. You just never realize that you are programming your sub conscious all day. This is why meditation is so powerful. You are able to make suggestions to your subconscious where the thought is not modified in any way shape or form. So if you want to make things happen fast you need to get rid of the concept of attaching time to yourthoughts. You have to remember that everything you get in your life comes based on the conditions that you set up and time is usually one condition that cuases the most frustration with people. Just as a computer programmer gives a computer instructions to complete a task, you program the most powerful computer you have which is your subconscious. Your conscious mind acts as the gate keeper as to what thoughts you let in. Now that you know this choose to become more aware and conscious about what you think all day long. Learn to see the world in a non linear way, remove time from your consiousness and watch how things show up in your life faster than you ever thought.

Thoughts = feelings = actions = results (just like that you can begin to shape your life)

12. Mentally rehearse every moment of it with all your senses. Dare to be like Peter Pan :)

13. Visualize in vivid detail, your intention as established fact. Also make sure you meditate only on days you feel good. Remember you want your thoughts to be as pure as possible. This also means that you really find out what you want, make sure its not something you want solely for ego purposes. Thoughts that involve the ego are usually always colored with negativity.

14. With time you will begin to be able to hold vivid pictures of anything(you will develop you third eye). The more you are able to hold onto an image in your mind the more power you give it.

15. Get up and go have a great day :) notice how much energy you have the rest of the day. As you advance in your discipline, you will have a lot of fun basically creating your day before it starts.

Beliefs:

To start making that vision a reality you will have to change some of your beliefs and adopt beliefs that will help you reach your goals. Because if you have this great vision of you retiring on your own private beach but deep down you don’t believe you can do it, you have already sabotaged yourself. Your desire and your belief are in conflict with each other and therefore you will not manifest what it is that you want into your life. If you want to be a good leader one day but you currently have the belief that you are a shy person, it will not happen. You need to truly make a decision to adopt the belief that you are really outgoing. When you truly decide to do something you will find a way to do it.

“Nothing happens unless first a dream” – Carl Sandburg

Some Ways to shape your beliefs:

1. Always think Success- as soon as you think about failure forget about it and don’t let anymore negative thoughts snowball. The more attention you give a thought the more powerful it will become than you will make it harder for yourself to get back to a productive mind state. The only way to change how you feel is to think about something else. Whenever you feel doubt, fear, and failure creeping into your mind have a default thought that you can use to avoid giving attention to mental poison. As soon as I feel I am entertaining thoughts of negativity I immediately begin to think about relaxing on a beach and affirm to myself that “I attract abundance to all areas of my life”. The more I try and have the feelings of being on the beach with no worries and remind myself that I am in complete control of how I feel, I immediately feel the negativity begin to melt away as I begin to focus on my new positive thought.

2. Develop the belief that you are better than you currently feel- don’t look at your weaknesses as a burden but as an opportunity to improve your self. When I find something I don’t like about my personality I don’t get down on myself for it, I just realize that now I have something I can work on to make myself better. Most importantly love and accept who you are, not who you will or should be.

3. Believe that sky’s the limit- if you have little goals you will have little success, the bigger your dreams the more potential for your possible success. Even If you think your dream is too big, strive to reach that dream, because you will end up at a better place than if you would have set your sights on a smaller goal. The trick is to really believe you can do it, this just isn’t wishful thinking. Wishful thinking never got anyone anything, you need to find out what you want and get out there and get it. If you really want that house on the beach your mind will come up with ways to help you get it.(develop faith in your self)

How to remove junk beliefs:

1. Meditate on your old belief and tell the truth about it. Now replace it with a belief that will better serve you. Meditate on it until you feel you have changed that belief.

Now when you accept these beliefs it means you will have to raise your standards and develop a strategy that will put you on the road to accomplish what you set forth. Do whatever you have to do. Read any books that will spark your interest or help you discover any distinctions that will point you in the right direction. Find a role model, a person who has already accomplished what you want. Find out what some of their beliefs, interests, body language, image, etc. is and adopt them as your own. Your role model can serve as a blue print, the goal is to cut down on the trial and error so you can get where you want faster than you ever thought possible. You can take all the qualities from all the people you admire and add your own personal touch. Just think of if it as if you are trying to build the person you want and know you can be. Thomas Edison is one of the greatest inventors in history, he was able to elaborate, modify and adapt on other peoples ideas. You don’t have torecreate the wheel just constantly be aware of any success ingredients you come across and make them part of your identity. Think of your mind as a warehouse the more you learn and store will eventually serve as an inventory for future reference, which will breed new ideas and perspectives.

Consistency is key we are all creatures of patterns and habits. In order to become the person you desire to be, start by changing your patterns. Think of all the quality traits you must possess, make a pattern which uses those traits efficiently than strive to be consistent. Consistency will develop into habits and this is key because if you fail to be consistent with your actions you will not be consistent with who you desire to be. This lack of confusion between your actions and what your mind knows you are capable of leads to tremendous amounts of stress, confusion, and even depression. Many other consequences also come from a lack of consistency.

This is why awareness of self is critical; you need to be constantly evaluating your self. Decide if the persona you are currently displaying is the reality that you want for yourself,because with enough time thats what your reality will become.

Thank you for reading my hub, I love to hear anyones opinion or suggestions. Good luck to everyone.

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